National Association of Retired Police Officers

(NARPO) London Branch

 

 

 














 

   

THE DRAGON’S ARRIVAL

(or how to start a reunion group)

Ever wondered how reunion groups are formed and what keeps them going? In LPP Issue 120 (March 2006) David Richards, now the President, described how the Welsh Mets Association got started.  This article should serve as a useful get started guide.

 

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I was sitting in a pub chatting to the landlord about world events (and how we could solve them!) when we discovered that we were both ex-members of the Metropolitan Police. The pub was The Seagull in Nottage, Porthcawl, South Wales, the landlord was John Booth and the year was 2000. As we continued our conversation we both identified people living locally who were also ex-Metropolitan Police officers and we decided to try to get them together for a drink and a chat.

 

A couple of phone calls later and it was all fixed up; we had our first meeting on 28 July 2000 in, of course, The Seagull and it was then that we first discussed the possibility of forming some sort of reunion or club.

 

We needed a secretary, Bob Baker volunteered and I was told that I would be the chairman. The next question was “What should we call ourselves?” After much debate, and, of course, more beer we discovered the problem was solved. We were all ex-Metropolitan Police and we were all living in Wales, so the Welsh Mets Association sounded just right.

 

We put an advertisement in the London Police Pensioner and duly received replies from all over Wales. It was decided that we should have a first meeting with all interested parties to discuss the formation of the Welsh Mets Association.  Arranging a lunch in The Seagull (of course), a good few turned up and all agreed that it would be a good thing to form a club where we could meet and socialize on a regular basis.

 

For a bit of fun we had a raffle which, of course, meant we had raised some money; so what do you do with the money? Well, you appoint a treasurer of course and Richard Cook was appointed our first. You then decide you need a committee so that you can decide what to do with the money.

 

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Then questions started to arise:-

 

*     Who could be a member?

*     What about wives, partners, girl friends, boy friends, next door neighbours etc?

 

The list was getting longer, the answers were few and far between but, eventually, it was decision time and it was agreed that to be a member of the Welsh Mets Association the following criteria applied:

 

*     You must have served in the Metropolitan Police.

*     You must be living in Wales.

*     Wives, husbands, partners, widows, widowers, were members.

 

We launched as The Welsh Mets Association — or so we thought!  More questions were coming up and fewer answers could be given so it was decided to have a written constitution.

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Having been a member of Porthcawl Town Council for some years and being the current Mayor of the town, I was given the job of putting the constitution on paper.  I carefully inserted the clause that the chairman could not serve longer than three years in the post; best bit of writing I have ever done! At the next meeting the constitution was discussed, amended and soon agreed. There have been a few minor amendments to that first draft constitution since that time, the main one being that membership is now open to ex-members of the Metropolitan Police pensioners who live in counties adjoining Wales.

 

The Welsh Mets Association has grown to have a membership of over 70 and we have lunch on the first Thursday of every quarter, March, June, September and December. Unfortunately we are now so many in number that we cannot fit into The Seagull, but John Booth has moved on anyway.

 

We try to alternate our venues between south and mid Wales. We have our own tie for the male members and a Welsh Dragon-type brooch for the ladies. Due to the tremendous support given to our raffle, which takes place at every meeting, we are very much in the black to such an extent that members receive a subsidy on their meals. The annual meeting decides the annual contribution of members.

 

One of the major factors of the Association is its welfare role. Of course we are a long way from London and the local police have their hands full looking after their own ex-members. I feel we fill a gap here and I know that the current committee takes its responsibilities very seriously when dealing with the welfare of our members, particularly when a death occurs.

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Every now and then we invite guests to our lunches. We have had the pleasure of entertaining the Chief Constables of Dyfed, Powis and South Wales to our meals. Both men were ex-Mets themselves. Recently we entertained the Chairman and Secretary of the London Branch of NARPO. Mostly though, it’s just the members who enjoy a meal together and the opportunity to discuss the current problems of the world, in particular those of the Metropolitan Police.  The conversation usually gets round to what it was like in ‘my day’ (of course it was better in our day, wasn’t it?). It’s good fun! We are a nice bunch!

 

If you are thinking of starting up a similar organisation in your area I would be only too happy to help you — please feel free to email or phone me. Also, of course, any ex-Mets in Wales please get in touch, I am sure you will know someone from our membership. 

 

(Members seeking to join the Welsh Mets Association or seeking to start-up a reunion group should now visit the members reunion page)

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Article reproduced by kind permission of London Police Pensioner

 

 

 

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